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How do they do it?

How do they do it?

Do you know that great chess players can glance at a position and quickly assess which side is winning? Not only that, but they can also determine the best moves and ideas for each side.

They get what they need/crazy making/cognitive dissonance/dr.Jekyll and  Mr Hyde attention, certainty, uncertainty, significance 

They can control you/crazymaking/trauma bonding (confusion/emotion), fear, fight-flight freeze, eggshells.

They can make you addicted to them (speech patterns/brainwashing/cycle of abuse/trauma bonding) 

infantilize 

learned helplessness. 

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